R u interested dating
If anyone has ever described the idea of societal privilege to you, it’s kinda like that.The core of it is, you can be a good person, doing things that seem reasonable from your perspective, and still be part of a problem.That seems respectful, both for them and for the person they are going to be dating.I am not going to argue that anyone and everyone who is going to try Poly MUST be out as being Poly.Really, people need to exercise discretion about a great many things in their life, this is no different from any somewhat controversial choice that a person might make, based on the morals and values of their community.However, as you might guess, I’m going to point out that there are some problems.One of the first problems is when you don’t talk about your preexisting expectations up front.It is critical to have a conversation with prospective partners, before there is a relationship, where you discuss how “out” you are wiling to be.
You posted that you and your partner are ready to open up your relationship and find a special person to add to it. One thing that many of them said was that you are a “Unicorn Hunter”.
Their relationship has some very good points, they genuinely care for each other, are committed, and tend to be open to new experiences.